The action comes before the receiving. That’s the order of events.
It seems kind of obvious… if we want dinner, we make dinner. If we want to go to the library, we walk or drive there. There is some sort of action that takes place *before* we get what we want.
Sometimes it’s a very easy and automatic action, like the two examples above.
You already are someone who cooks and walks, so you just do it. It’s obvious. We don’t even think about it as “doing” something. But we have most definitely done something. There is action.
But let’s say you want something that you’ve never experienced before where the action isn’t as known or automatic.
Maybe you want an amazingly intimate and passionate relationship or you want to TRIPLE your income or you want that new position at work, something that you desire, but have never had or done before?
You still have to take action. Kind of obvious when we put it like this.
Yet so often we take action that is not associated with our desired result, but with our current experience.
We keep doing the same thing we’ve always done and we expect different results.
We assume that our desire for it is enough. That our partner will make the first step, that our boss will recognize our potential, that people will flock to our business.
This isn’t how it works.
You have to BE the person who does the kind of actions associated with this desire. (Not actions associated with another desire or your current experience.)
You have to BE an intimate and passionate partner. You have to BE the person who has that position at work. You need to BE the person who makes three times what she is making now.
This new way of being is what leads to the action that leads to the actual result you want.
So how do you BE in a way that you haven’t up until now? Or in a way that you have limited experience with?
You ACT AS IF.
You BE THE CHANGE.
Ask yourself, who would I need to be to be someone who has… (what you desire)?
What comes up for you? What’s her life like? What is she doing? What is she saying? How is she acting? What is her energy? What is her environment? How is she interacting with her environment? What are her daily habits? How does she show up?
Get really clear about that. See it. Feel it. Know it.
This is what you need to BE now.
Start to create this in your life now. Start acting like that person.
This change in BEING is what comes first. It leads to the actions and the results.
To have the change (the result you want), you need to BE the change.
The most significant thing about our work together is how quickly and effectively you were able to get down to the nugget that was really in the the way, that was holding me back, or needed to be healed. This work is like inner energy surgery. It’s so practical yet happens at a cellular level. It causes real change, with lasting effects. It’s not just talk!
Since we first started working together, I have reduced my stress level by 90%, handed off work to an assistant freeing up at least 20% of my time, added a new revenue stream with new clients and many prospects, and increased my income from $188k to over $1.1 Million. The financial benefits are easy to quantify but the benefits associated with being able to build a strong foundation and reduce my stress level are priceless.
Amira helped me cut through my internal noise and confusion and laid out such a clear and exciting business strategy that I marveled at how fast and clearly she saw it and me. She has a unique gift of seeing your strengths and opportunities and helping you bring them to life with ease and magic.
