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From possibility to reality… my journey

By Amira Alvarez When I first started out in my business, I had a vision and a drive. I could see what was possible… I saw it from my mentors, from other entrepreneurs I surrounded myself with, even in my own ‘knowing’.  Can you relate? However, the simple act of knowing what is…
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When I first started out in my business, I had a vision and a drive. I could see what was possible… I saw it from my mentors, from other entrepreneurs I surrounded myself with, even in my own ‘knowing’. 

Can you relate?

However, the simple act of knowing what is possible isn’t the same as actually making it a reality. In the process of taking what I knew was possible and moving into what is now my reality a few key things had to happen. I want to share those with you today in hopes that if you are in a ‘possibility place’ you will understand what is needed to move it to reality.

Step 1 – Embrace Who You Truly Are

I think a lot of women skip this step. Mainly because we are often programmed to ‘be’ who everyone else needs us to be, we miss the opportunity to really step into the fullness of who we are as women and as entrepreneurs. Yes, I am driven and can slay the ‘get-it-done’ parts of my business, but I am also very intuitive and in flow with my productivity. Embracing all of who I am in both my masculine and feminine energy is a vital aspect to stepping into my success as a female entrepreneur.

Step 2 – Commit to the Plan

This step can often be the most frustrating, not because we are not willing to commit to the plan but because we often don’t have all the information we need to create the plan. Information around how to design the best offers that suit us (and our vision (see point one above, embracing who you are) for us, marketing strategies, sales techniques, how to manage our schedules, time, and priorities, what to sell, building a team, or creating processes, etc… 

We create a business because we want to deliver a specific service or skill, not because we want to be master marketers!  ← If this is you I TOTALLY GET IT!

So when it comes to creating a plan to build or scale our business it’s frustrating because we don’t always have the info we need, which leads me to Step 3.

Step 3 – Master the Art of Communication

Yep! You guessed it… to really scale and grow your business there is a level of mastery needed in communicating exactly what you need to create what you envision.  

Marketing is communication
Selling is communication
Leading a team is communication
Delivering a service/product is communication

Often when we don’t know what we don’t know it hinders us from reaching our goals.  We can be limited by what we understand in these areas that causes us not to communicate effectively and essentially not create the result we desire.  

Learning to be an effective communicator required me to have a working understanding of how different strategies and technologies worked to support the vision and delegate out what needed to be done. 

Often when people ask me what we do here at The Unstoppable Woman, or when the team and I are trying to put a ‘one line tag’ to our brand… My frustration is that it’s not just one thing. 

Because my journey to success didn’t just come from doing one thing.  I don’t believe yours is either. It’s not just marketing, just mindset, just sales, just team, just operations. 

It’s multilayered.  

Requiring you to solve for multiple solutions at one time.  If you are looking to solve multiple layers in your business right now for: Sales, Marketing, Creating an Irresistible Offer or how to manage your time, I want to equip you in your success. 

In Spirit of Wealth Fundamentals Course I poured my heart into distilling everything I did to go from 6-figures to 7-figures into…

An 8 module course with 13 hours of training videos, 37 worksheets, 30+ FAQ Videos answering the most common asked questions and obstacles our clients face in scaling their business.

It’s the full monty… for business development.

If I sold each piece separately I could easily sell it for $15,000.00, that is the full value of everything that is packed into this training.

I want to offer it to you for ONLY $597.

This is a limited time offer, so I encourage you to take action now as I usually sell this course for $8000.00 and it will return to it’s normal pricing soon.   

Get the full details for The Spirit of Wealth Fundamentals here. 

How to effectively delegate to your team

By Amira Alvarez Last year I started a new process with my team – I call it Delegate to Done.   Not only has it saved me a MINIMUM of 3 hours per project… (probably more!) It’s increased the PLEASURE I have running my business.  Outcomes have gone up. Frustration has gone down. And…
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Last year I started a new process with my team – I call it Delegate to Done.  

Not only has it saved me a MINIMUM of 3 hours per project… (probably more!)

It’s increased the PLEASURE I have running my business. 

Outcomes have gone up.
Frustration has gone down.

And not just for me… but for my Team as well.

What’s not to love about that?

The Delegate-to-Done (D-to-D) Framework is all about CLARITY and COMMUNICATION. In fact this structure forces YOU to get SUPER CLEAR about all the critical aspects of a project and gives you a structured way to communicate that.

It takes me about 30 minutes of up front work to do this. You have to trust that this is worth the time. I promise you it will SAVE you time and tons of wasted effort overall. Plus, what’s the alternative?

Some brief conversation where you assume that they get it and that you’re all on the same page? Then get frustrated that they don’t?

As you’d imagine, that doesn’t work. Ask me how I know. 🙃

We have used it for projects related to initiatives around:

  • Internal SOPs 
  • Our Contracts and Payments Process
  • Social Media (multiple projects here)
  • The Podcast 
  • Client Retention
  • Metrics
  • Program Management
  • Messaging
  • Our Program Coaching
  • And more…

The best part is once I get all my thoughts out of my head and into this structure, my team knows EXACTLY what I want!  They can easily start troubleshooting how to make it happen and I don’t require a ton of touch points from me along the way. They know what success looks like because I know what success looks like.

Seems obvious but we often try to short cut this.

We are able to move faster and more efficiently with initiatives and with each of the checkpoints, I always know where the status of the project is… WHOO HOO!  Game changer :)

The D-to-D Framework requires that you get clear and identify…

  • Phased Check-In Dates
  • Ownership and Roles
  • The Problem 
  • The Outcome
  • The Impact (for Clients, Company, Team)
  • The Success Criteria

Want a copy of the full template that I use so you implement yourself?

Click here for a copy of it.

Enjoy!

Your profit is in your prayers

By Amira Alvarez I debated on whether or not to share this publicly but I know it will encourage and empower those who are ready to step into full trust of Spirit– that power that is bigger than you, yet is running through you. Money touches everything. It’s a tool for growth and…
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I debated on whether or not to share this publicly but I know it will encourage and empower those who are ready to step into full trust of Spirit– that power that is bigger than you, yet is running through you.

Money touches everything. It’s a tool for growth and a tool for self-actualization. I always have a money goal that is part of every initiative. It’s the business woman in me, it’s the willingness to claim my desires, it’s the HUGE targets I set for myself. 

Recently I held an event.
Day 1 seeded the offer – crickets
Day 2 shared the offer – crickets

Day 3 came around and that morning in the quiet, In the stillness, before the sun came up, with a full event day ahead of me, I was having a real, in-depth, transparent conversation with God. Meditating in pure devotion of my desire and all that was possible. Asking my questions with an open heart, in surrender.

And in an instant, this power gave me a sales number for this event.
Not a small number.
Kind of an impossible number if I was willing to accept the previous two days’ interest.

But I wasn’t.  Because I am unstoppable ;-)

Hair and make-up artist came, team meeting happened, all the while I am sitting with this number. Admittedly, a little fired up. 

My own faith was activated.

I was completely tapped in. 
All that was possible was so clear. 

There was no doubt.

I met with my sales manager and shared the number with her. It was more like I “preached” the number to her. She didn’t skip a beat, no fear, no hesitation, it’s like she was fully in sync with me and the message I got from God, Spirit, Source, The Field…  on what was possible. (That in and of itself is a miracle… you know what I am talking about, convincing the team of what is possible, as a leader is a constant job of ours!)

No convincing.
Both of us, simply in acceptance of what is about to happen. 

I did my part…
She did her part…
The Universe did its part/God did his part…

We exceeded the number that was given to me.

Your profit is in your prayers!

What are you praying? What are you hearing? What are you willing to activate your faith around? 

The Universe is abundant!
There is more than enough money, time and resources for all we desire!
Faith moves mountains!

Igniting intimacy with yourself

By Amira Alvarez What does intimacy with yourself really look like? Have you ever noticed when you get quiet, still, alone with your thoughts, that almost immediately you shift into a todo list of all the things you should be doing at that moment.   Maybe you're in the shower or trying to take…
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What does intimacy with yourself really look like? Have you ever noticed when you get quiet, still, alone with your thoughts, that almost immediately you shift into a todo list of all the things you should be doing at that moment.  

Maybe you’re in the shower or trying to take a nice bath or a long walk and BAM… this needs to be done, that needs to be done… on and on!

What this is showing is that you struggle with being intimate with yourself. 

The peace of mind and indulging in pleasure is being overridden by your habit of action and worry. Which often leaves you more stressed and overwhelmed than you were before you tried to take a breather moment.  

What if instead you had practical steps to ignite intimacy with yourself. These steps are so easy and yet they require intentional, habitual practice to really master and experience the benefits of.

Are you ready…

  1. Focus on one desire that you have.
  2. Imagine that desire becoming a reality.. the feeling, taste, smell of it.Is it a trip somewhere? Play out in your mind what you would do on that trip.
    Is it a romantic experience with your partner? Lean into a full storyline fantasy, costumes and all (if that’s what you are into.)
    Is it a team that can help you build your vision? Have conversations with them that would be a dreamy experience to manifest in reality.
  3. Notice how you feel in that mind play. Are you free? Do you feel joy? Or did you immediately go into the ‘how’ to make it happen or a feeling of impossibility? Are there insecurities that show up, entitlements, fears…
  4. Journal your thoughts about your intimate time. Pay attention to where you were being pulled out of your imagination into what you ‘think’ is possible or not. Pay attention to other distractions that came in to rob you of your intimate time by yourself. Pay attention to how quickly you wanted to end this mindplay or how long you desired to play it out in your head before releasing back to reality. 

    Now do this everyday for a minimum of 10 minutes, with at least 5 minutes of journal time.

What will happen after a few days is you will find yourself wanting your intimate time alone. You will be seeking moments to feel into all of your desires, that they will no longer just be thoughts but full embodiments of freedom that you get to explore within yourself.

Soon you will easily know what it feels like to truly have a connection with yourself and what you desire. Clarity is the reward of this exercise. Intimacy is the gateway to being more at peace, empowered, and unapologetically, freely you.

Enjoy! I know I will :) 

My word for 2023 – SPACIOUSNESS

By Amira Alvarez It’s a new year… and I don’t know about you but I LOVE NEW! I love a new outfit, a new car, a new relationship… new is fun, mysterious and sexy. So for this new year… I am determined to create a new experience in my life. An experience of…
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It’s a new year… and I don’t know about you but I LOVE NEW! I love a new outfit, a new car, a new relationship… new is fun, mysterious and sexy.

So for this new year… I am determined to create a new experience in my life.

An experience of spaciousness.

As a high-achieving, driven, ambitious and unstoppable woman… I know how to get stuff done. I know how to go hard, lean in and make it happen. It might even be my super-power (and yours too!)

Don’t worry… I am actually not a work-aholic or overwhelmed in my responsibilities.

But what I am is booked solid during my determined ‘working hours’… well that doesn’t leave the spaciousness I desire to create, ponder and learn at the level that I want.

So I have a new desire.

What happens when you have a new desire? Often, everything that doesn’t match that desire becomes, well let’s say: irritating.

This new desire for spaciousness is so real, relevant and raw that it is confronting everything else on my calendar. Every moment I spend is now being measured up to the desired outcome of spaciousness.

How many calls I hold.
How my programs are laid out.
How I work with my team.
How I deliver training content.
Everything.

It’s a beautiful and powerful experience to recognize that what was once my solution to the ‘make more money’ opportunity, has become the challenge to my desire for spaciousness.

This is what happens when we begin to trust ourselves more intently, claim our value, and step into our feminine essence (which requires us to open up and trust to receive more.) The last solution we had becomes the next challenge to overcome.

This brings me immense joy… and peace.

It’s growth.
It’s surrender.
It’s my desires evolving.

So… what’s new for you this year?

Sexual energy is creative energy

By Amira Alvarez Ever wonder why not having enough time, never ending todo lists, and doing “all the things” all the time feels… so oppressive? I wish that I had this information years ago, it would have helped me with my ability to receive both in my business in terms of revenue, ideal…
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Ever wonder why not having enough time, never ending todo lists, and doing “all the things” all the time feels… so oppressive?

I wish that I had this information years ago, it would have helped me with my ability to receive both in my business in terms of revenue, ideal clients, opportunities, and more… and in my personal life. And yep, that means in my sex life as well. Read on to see how this is all connected.

In the book, Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill speaks about the sexual nature of men. He talks about having a highly sexed nature being a key aspect to all successful men.

Meaning that they are tapped into their desire to have sex.

Did you know that you can take this drive– this physical, biological drive– and channel it, transmute it, and use that same energy for building your business, calling in more money, achieving any goal that you have, financial or otherwise? Enticing right?

It is POWERFUL energy because quite frankly sexual energy is creative life force energy.

It’s the energy required to make babies and create life.

Now what happens if you can take that energy and put it towards something else? If successful men have this high sex drive, and they can transmute it and use it to create huge amounts of success, where does that leave women?

What I find with many women, who are ambitious, driven, high-achievers, is that for a variety of different reasons, they suppress much of their feminine essence (and honestly sexual energy) in favor of their masculine essence.

Now, why might that be? Well, quite frankly, when building a business, leading a team, managing multiple initiatives, you have to do a lot of very structured, focused doing and the masculine essence drives that kind of action… It’s hunting, pursuing, very directive. It’s about making impressions, it’s about going out, being outwardly driven.

You can think of this in terms of how the male and the female genitalia physically look. The male genitalia is outward driven, very directive, when it’s alert, you can really see that. ;-)

The female genitalia is a receiving shape and to receive you must open. You can really see the difference in our physiology.

So the feminine essence is really about receiving, it’s about nurturing like the womb, being open, like you need to do during sex.

It’s about magnetizing and attracting. It’s a different kind of energy.

Now there is no better or worse, good or bad, between the two. You need both. As I mentioned, to create (or make babies), you need a masculine and a feminine, you can’t have one without the other, you won’t be able to create.

What this looks like in business is giving yourself time for cogitation, thinking, and nurturing your ideas. It’s about opening to what is possible and what you desire to receive. It’s about allowing it in. This is the feminine essence.

The reason so many women are in a power struggle with time is because we stay in the masculine energy and neglect the feminine. It suppresses our ability and desire to receive.

We think going hard is the secret sauce for success, but in reality it’s in our ability to openly receive. To lean into and nurture our ideas, allow the incubation period to be fully formed. Then, and only then, is it time to tap into the masculine essence, putting it all together and getting it out in the world. You need both.

As the New Year approaches… explore your feminine essence further. Allow yourself to be open and ready to receive. Tap into this and you’ll begin to more easily transmute your vision and desires in results. You will be amazed at how liberated you feel and the results you experience.