What does it mean to be “in your feminine”?

I used to stay all in my masculine without even noticing. Truth be told… I still sometimes find myself “all in my masculine,” forgetting entirely about the flow of life, love, energy. 

Yesterday was one of those days. 

Thinking, thinking, thinking. Doing, doing, doing. Grinding it out.

Lots got done. Decisions were made. Meetings were had. 

And even though that feels good at some level…

Even though I like the feeling of checking things off the list and achieving what I set out to achieve that day…

If I’m not ALSO in my flow, it feels like grinding.

And I get grumpy, resentful, shut down. 

And then when I go to talk with my man at the end of the day, I am anything BUT smiles and love. No bueno. 

So if you’re living and working like this on the regular, you’ve got to ask yourself…

What’s the point of a life without energy and life force? 
What’s the point of building a successful business, if you just feel sapped and drained? 

There’s an alternative and it looks like…

‘Doing’ that comes with flow. Achievement that comes with ease. This feels so much better and is totally possible. But it’s been conditioned out of most of us and to get back to it is a learned skill.

It requires integrating your masculine and feminine essence.

Your masculine essence is very goal driven, very structured, very disciplined. It drives the plans. It works the calendar. It thrives with focus. As entrepreneurs, we maximize these aspects of ourselves. 

That’s why it gets really tough to step out of it while making decisions, delegating tasks, and leading meetings all day. But, I’ve come to realize that embracing my feminine essence is just as vital for running my business – it holds a profound, intimate power.

It’s the power of deep intuitive knowing, so helpful when making all those decisions.

It’s the power of flow, which probably means stepping away from the meetings and zoom screen, to allow that brilliant solution to come to you… no forcing required.

It’s the power of truly feeling your emotions and giving a s*%t, clearly important if you want to lead with integrity, authenticity, and impact. 

If you want to receive at higher and higher levels, you have to step into both aspects of yourself. 

The Law of Gender says that we need both the masculine and feminine essence to bring our ideas to reality. Just like when the sperm meets the egg, they come together to create life. So, if you want to bring your ideas to life, and this is what’s required in business, you must bring both your masculine and your feminine to your work. 

Your feminine is like water. It’s movement, it’s flow, it’s creativity. Your feminine is nurturing, creative, and seeking. It’s a place of emotional awareness. It is always within you, you just have to access it. How? Open your heart to receiving. 

A few examples of what “opening your heart to receiving” in business looks like are…

• Being open to ideas and opportunities – don’t dismiss what initially looks wrong.
• Allowing your Team to make decisions – don’t be the bottleneck!
• Letting others come up with solutions and execute them – you don’t have to do it all.

Opening to receiving is an embodied lived experience. It’s not something you can do with your mind. You must get comfortable in your body with it. 

Every woman I’ve helped cross over that million dollar mark, had to learn this to let money flow more easily into their lives.  If you want to learn more about it, I highly recommend checking this podcast episode but better yet…

If it’s time to live it, not just learn about it, I invite you to the Spirit of Wealth Mastermind and Masterclass.  Apply to become part of it here now.