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Want to Win the Battle, But Lose the War? Try Blame.

Want to Win the Battle, But Lose the War? Try Blame.
By Amira Alvarez Do you want to win the battle, but lose the war? Try blame. Today I want to talk about making mistakes, and how that causes us to want to blame other people. I wanted to touch on this topic because of something that happened with our company last week. I’m…
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Do you want to win the battle, but lose the war? Try blame.

Today I want to talk about making mistakes, and how that causes us to want to blame other people.

I wanted to touch on this topic because of something that happened with our company last week.

I’m just going to be straightforward with you… we made a mistake.

We sent out an email with the wrong time for our big training that would be live in just a few hours.

I saw that email and I was like, Oh sh*t! I immediately jumped onto Skype and communicated with my team, so that we could correct it and make sure no one was showing up on Zoom at the wrong hour.

But the thing that was crucial here, was the way that I approached this situation.

Even though I was feelin’ a little stressed about the time crunch… I was like, Hey, we need to fix this! This is the next step I want. Then, how do we solve this in case that doesn’t work for every single person attending?

No blaming, no guilt trips. Clear headed and solution-focused.

Simple enough, right? You’d think so, but SO many successful women that I talk to still get this wrongagain and again!!

I’m not totally innocent either, to be clear. ;-)

A few years ago, if something like this would have happened in my business, I would’ve thought with an attitude of frustration and blame: “The scheduler should’ve caught thisMy team wasn’t paying attentionSomeone was being sloppySo-and-so really dropped the ball.”

I would’ve gone straight into blame each and every time there was a mistake. And I really had to change my attitude around this, quite frankly. And that shift started years ago… but I’m still not perfect!

In fact, sometimes I still go there if someone is consistently dropping the ball.

When that happens, I know something is off and I have to look at Causes.

Is it a systems issue?

Is it a management issue?

Is it a right person/wrong role issue?

Is it a wrong person/right role issue?

Is it a communication issue?

Is it an integrity issue?

And so on…

The truth is that, as human beings, we all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect 100% of the time.

So even if you win that battle,” you’re not actually winning.

You’re supporting an untruth. And all that does is perpetuate it in your life.

Instead, The Law of Cause and Effect demands that you look at the causes of the results you are getting.

You are ultimately ‘First Cause’ in your life. With that in mind, do both the enquiry in your business (see questions above) and look at what you’re doing, indirectly or directly, to create the mistakes.

Although there may be hiccups along the way, if you step out of the blame game with yourself and your team, you’ll ultimately win. :)

Every time I take personal responsibility in this way, I immediately see the positive effects ripple out to my team and in all areas of my business and life.

I felt better. The ease and delight came back. All the changes that needed to be made, happened in that seemingly effortless way that I’m used to. Ahhhh… back on track!

This is what I mean by winning the war.

So, how can you hold yourself to a higher standard when it comes to this?

This is an attitude shift that closes the gap so that you’re no longer wasting energy on blaming yourself or blaming others. You’re just focused on going to the next level… which will get you there so much faster. 

Break Free from the Fear of What Others Think | Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

By Amira Alvarez This special episode is part of our Morning Mindset Club Series, where we invite you to join me in my morning ritual of studying prosperity and success. We’re kicking this series off by taking you into one of my favorite texts, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. If you…
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This special episode is part of our Morning Mindset Club Series, where we invite you to join me in my morning ritual of studying prosperity and success. We’re kicking this series off by taking you into one of my favorite texts, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

If you haven’t acknowledged to yourself that you’re afraid of “they” will say, you’re letting something run you, unconsciously. And you’re always going to be trapped by this unconscious pattern. So let’s get clear on who “they” are for you… is it your family? Friends? Your kids’ parents? Your invisible audience on social media? Is it the voice of your mother from your childhood? Real or imaginary, there’s no doubt that this thinking is holding you back from creating what you want in your life and your business. So use your greatest power, your ability to choose, to recognize that you’re taking on that fear – and break free from it!!

Access the complete Mindset program here: https://theunstoppablewoman.com/mindset

What To Listen For

  • Are you limited by the fear of what others think?
  • Don’t beat yourself up—but DO hold yourself to a higher standard
  • Stop blaming others and learn how to take 100% ownership of your life
  • You define what success is for YOU!

Bonus Content

  • How to let go of regret and start enjoying your life
  • Could you be capable of much more than you think you are?

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How to Turn Jealousy into Self-Confidence

How to Turn Jealousy into Self-Confidence
By Amira Alvarez When you see others around you really going for it, growing their business, getting more visibility, and accomplishing big things, how does it make you feel? Is there a part of you that’s really happy for them, but another part that’s jealous? You want that level of success, but you…
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When you see others around you really going for it, growing their business, getting more visibility, and accomplishing big things, how does it make you feel?

Is there a part of you that’s really happy for them, but another part that’s jealous? You want that level of success, but you haven’t gotten there yet.

What happens next? Do you turn your criticism inwards, attacking yourself for all the ways you’re not measuring up, all the things you should’ve accomplished by now but haven’t?

Does it create some fear of being left behind? Then what?

Is it urgency or paralysis? Or something else?

Everyone has a pattern of reactivity that, if you’re not aware of, keeps you SMALL. It keeps you locked into fear-based reactivity, where you create the same results over and over again.

The way you’re feeling and reacting when others obtain what you want, says so much about you. (Remember, no harshing on yourself. We’re just bringing awareness to the pattern here.)

It says everything about the way you see yourself… this is your SELF-IMAGE, and if you’ve been following my teaching for awhile, you’ll know that your SELF-IMAGE affects every aspect of your life.

Your self-image either keeps you repeating the same patterns again and again and staying at the same level of success, revenue, love, peace, and freedom.

Or, if you’re able to change it and expand it, it allows you to create a massive quantum leap in SELF-CONFIDENCE, income and all the good that you desire in life.

You want that right? Think about what would open up for you if you knew how to change your self-image on command? You’d be able to get massively different results!!

Instead of being jealous, you’d be the one achieving the big things and inspiring others to go for more.

You’d be working towards your true desires and goals consistently, because you recognize just how valuable your time, energy, and efforts are.

You’d stay accountable and stop giving in to all the little things you don’t really want to do. You’d start changing what you’re worth. And you’d start living a fulfilling, successful, lit-up life.

So what’s required to do this?

Well, there’s some work to be done. I won’t kid you on that. (You can’t stay the same and get different results.)

I’d love to show you how to fast-track this all and build your self-image tenfold. Join me tomorrow at our Roundtable Teaching Discussion and Open Q&A on Changing Your Self-Image: The Missing Link to Rapidly Raising Your Revenue!

On Wednesday, June 16th from 1 to 2:30 ET, we’re going to give your self-confidence a makeover so you can start showing up as the truly unbelievable, kickass, uniquely powerful woman you are… and watch your income grow right alongside your self-worth and self-confidence ;-)

Click here to save your spot for this totally free 90-minute event. Please come live – there will be NO recording.

I hope I see you there… you might not even recognize yourself when you’re done ;-)

How Self-Image Can Tap Into The Most Powerful Force in the Universe

How Self-Image Can Tap Into The Most Powerful Force in the Universe
By Amira Alvarez All the energy that is in the Universe is flowing through you… and it’s taking the form of the thoughts that you’re thinking. This may sound like a woo concept, but EVERYTHING that is created starts as a thought. What’s creating those thoughts? And why do you think certain thoughts…
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All the energy that is in the Universe is flowing through you… and it’s taking the form of the thoughts that you’re thinking.

This may sound like a woo concept, but EVERYTHING that is created starts as a thought.

What’s creating those thoughts? And why do you think certain thoughts versus other thoughts?

And if those thoughts are negative like — “I just can’t get ahead… I wouldn’t be able to maintain that… I can’t do it… That’s not for people like me…” what ends up happening???

When you hold self-abusive thoughts like this in your heart, it stops you from taking action and making real progress towards your big goals, whether they’re financial, personal, relational, or all of the above.

These thoughts inhibit your every move, in turn influencing every choice you make, every action you take, all of your results and outcomes.

It’s not luck. It’s not random. It’s not happening to you.

You are creating this, and you’re doing it whether you understand it or not.

But what I want you to do is understand it—and then learn how to control it.

It starts with changing your self-image—what you think about yourself.

If you’re not getting the results you truly want, then you know that your self-image… has not kept up with your desires for what you want to achieve in this life.

It hasn’t kept up with your massive potential. It hasn’t kept up with the things you could achieve if you were executing at your highest level, and if you were living that extraordinary life you don’t just deserve… you require.

To get there, you first have to work on your self-image.

This is the only way out of the self-imposed trap you’re in.

To learn how to evolve the way you see yourself so your bank account can reap the rewards, join our Roundtable Discussion and Open Q&A on Changing Your Self-Image: The Missing Link to Rapidly Raising Your Revenue!

The Mental Block That’s Keeping You From Your Goals

The Mental Block That’s Keeping You From Your Goals
By Amira Alvarez You have big, audacious goals. You’ve claimed it, gotten giddy about it, and decided to finally take the plunge towards your true desire. You‘ve even got your foolproof plan in hand. But when you start taking action towards it… you get to one of the steps, and all you want…
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You have big, audacious goals.

You’ve claimed it, gotten giddy about it, and decided to finally take the plunge towards your true desire.

You‘ve even got your foolproof plan in hand. But when you start taking action towards ityou get to one of the steps, and all you want to do is run.

There’s resistance. It looks like complete avoidance, subtle procrastination, and distraction (i.e. getting busy with other very important things, inopportune crises and more.)

There’s almost a feeling like you’re trying to mix oil and water.

What’s up with that??

This happens because you’re in conflict with your identity and subconscious programming.

You resist doing the work because it’s so contrary to what you have done before… it’s so far from how you typically see yourself.

Let’s say you want to release some weight.

If you have a self-image of being a frumpy woman who is about 30 pounds overweight, you might be able to use persistence to shed those extra pounds.

But eventually, you’ll gain it all back.

If you want to be the successful, kickass owner of a 7-figure business, but your self-image is of a helpless girl who always calls others for advice on what to do… there’s going to be resistance there.

Same thing if you see yourself as the penny-pincher, regardless of how much you’re making – the person who second-guesses every price tag and denies herself from buying anything “just because that’s the right way to be.”

You may be able to perform at the level you desire for a little while – you might even be relatively successful – but you’ll never unlock your true potential if this is how you see yourself.

It is critically important that you align your self-image with your goals.

If you’re not doing the work to change your self-image, you will only see incremental improvements in your life and your business.

Wouldn’t you rather make a quantum leap?

If the answer is yes, then make sure to join our Roundtable Discussion and Open Q&A on Changing Your Self-Image: The Missing Link to Rapidly Raising Your Revenue!

Don’t Let Your Ego Destroy Your Growth Mindset

Don’t Let Your Ego Destroy Your Growth Mindset
By Amira Alvarez “If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.” I don’t know about you, but as true as this quote is, I haven’t always lived up to it ;-) Sometimes it feels good to be on top! But this attitude doesn’t encourage a growth mindset, even…
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“If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.

I don’t know about you, but as true as this quote is, I haven’t always lived up to it ;-)

Sometimes it feels good to be on top! But this attitude doesn’t encourage a growth mindset, even though we’re often taught to think like this.

In our formative years, we were taught to equate “success” with getting the best grades or being at the top of our class. 

But if you’re attached to being at the top throughout the entirety of your adult life, this’ll end up biting you in the butt.

In fact, if you’re routinely the smartest person in the room and aren’t placing yourself among people who challenge you… it might have a little more to do with your ego than you care to admit ;-)

When you put yourself in situations where there’s a comfortable margin between you and everyone else, your ego stays satisfied. It’s not in the least bit threatened. 

You get to feel nice and comfy, secure in your superiority.

And yet this means that you aren’t stretched to grow. You’re in cruise mode, with the opposite of a growth mindset.

I know that’s not the place you want to be!

In order to achieve massive success, you need to be the small fish in the big pond!

To be clear, I’m not saying you should stay small, or not go for growth in your life and your business.

Actually, I’m arguing for the opposite!

Instead of being among people that make you FEEL like you’ve got it all together and are doing great – but don’t push you to BECOME better, smarter, or richer… You need to spend your time with people who BOTH support you and CHALLENGE you to raise your game.

It’s SO much easier to step into your true power when you’re surrounded by other people who are going for growth.

People who are grateful for what they have but desire more for themselves, their businesses, their relationships, and their bank accounts with NO SHAME about it.

People who are leveling up as quickly as they possibly can, as they work towards huge visions and financial goals. People who will call you out because they are doing the work and ACTIVELY running the stairs themselves!

In order to maintain a growth mindset and raise your financial set point…

You have to surround yourself with people that MATCH your desired mindset.

That’s when you know you’re in the right room.