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Ready for an Exquisite Life with Spaciousness and Ease?

By Amira Alvarez We’re doing something different here at TUW and I wanted to give you a bit of a preview.For a long time I’ve been oscillating between encouraging you to lean into your masculine or feminine essence.By now, if you’ve been with me for awhile, you know that one is not better…
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We’re doing something different here at TUW and I wanted to give you a bit of a preview.

For a long time I’ve been oscillating between encouraging you to lean into your masculine or feminine essence.

By now, if you’ve been with me for awhile, you know that one is not better than the other and that you need both “to give birth” or make manifest on this physical plane to the ideas, dreams, and goals you hold on the non-physical plane. This is the Law of Gender.

The masculine, represented in summary form, is your singular focused drive, persistence, and discipline on your goal. 

It’s most required when you’re just starting a business or a career and need to build trust in yourself to get the momentum going. This is the gestation period.

This is when you have more time than money, so your focus is on bootstrapping your way to success.

This is when most things require you to hunker down and do things that are beyond your comfort zone. 

This is the “just do it” time period.

None of this needs to feel bad and by all means you’ll want to integrate your feminine essence into how you’re working as well.

Perhaps the 80/20 rule would apply here. Show up 80% in your masculine, 20% in your feminine*.  

Once you’ve got lift off though, it’s generally wise to start moving more into your feminine.

The feminine, in summary form, is your intuitive knowing that moves you forward seemingly indirectly yet reaches outcomes with more ease, more quickly.

It is most required when you’ve already achieved a certain level of success.

When you’ve already mastered the key skill sets required for continued success.

When you already trust yourself to show up and do the work. 

Again, we could apply the 80/20 rule here. Show up 80% in your feminine, 20% in your masculine*.

But most über successful women stay in their masculine 98% of the time and stay there long after it’s actually necessary.

This causes a lack of true satisfaction and a diminishing ROI on their output. 

They’d be better served living from their feminine a whole lot more.   

Better served not only in their entrepreneur/CEO role, but also in their personal lives.

And this is where the Exquisite Life comes in.

We’re going to be talking about this concept and this way of creating a lot more.

This Exquisite Life Plan methodology is best used by those women… 

Who are craving more ease and spaciousness but not at the sacrifice of their ambition…  

Who have already achieved a certain level of success and they’re asking themselves… “Is this all that there is?” and “What’s next?”…  

Who already have amazing lives but are ready to look at that one area that continues to hold them back from a truly exquisite life.

I can’t wait to share more with you. This is the evolution of what’s come before and a birthing of a new body of work. 

*None of this is written in stone. These are just guidelines to get you thinking. Different days, different projects, different conversations, different environments, etc require different aspects of yourself.

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Want to experience more as an Unstoppable Woman?

Be sure to check out the Unstoppable Woman podcast. If you’re ready to step into an exquisite life, schedule a call to discuss how we can help.

Are you Manufacturing Relevance?

By Amira Alvarez Playing at the same level…We all know when we’re there. We can feel it.Blah. Bland. Listless. A life dialed in.The things that used to challenge us to grow we’ve done enough times that even those “uncomfortable risks” are now squarely in our comfort zone.And yet we often stay there… comfortable. Now…
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Playing at the same level…

We all know when we’re there. We can feel it.

Blah. Bland. Listless. A life dialed in.

The things that used to challenge us to grow we’ve done enough times that even those “uncomfortable risks” are now squarely in our comfort zone.

And yet we often stay there… comfortable. 

Now there’s nothing wrong with a life of ease and grace but not if it’s at the expense of growth.

Growth is a calling. 

We crave it. 

And the ambitious are especially good at actualizing it–undeterred, driven, focused. 

We know that “if you’re not growing you’re dying.”

And this often leads, sadly, to a manufacturing of activity and stress.

Stuff to do, projects to pursue, businesses to create… to fill a void when we don’t know where we want to grow next or how to do it differently.

We even (on more than one occasion if you’re honest) fool ourselves into “brilliant ideas” to stay busy… occupied… relevant.

Why?

Because true growth requires breaking free of how we’ve always done things and owning your deepest wants and desires…

Is not expedient. It takes time.

Is not obvious. It’s nuanced.

Is not what you’ve been habituated to. It’s the unknown.

It will call into question your relationship with yourself and others. 

It will force a radical shift in approach. 

It will challenge you– heart, mind, and soul. 

And yet… 

After success the way we’ve always created it, through the power of our will and the focus of our intellect, it is what we are craving.

So I ask you…

What if relevance, to yourself and others, didn’t come with manufactured occupation? 
What if your projects met your heart’s desires?
What if your activity included the breadth and depth of who you are?
What if living into your growth could come with spaciousness?

What if you could create an exquisite life?

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Want to experience more as an Unstoppable Woman?

Be sure to check out the Unstoppable Woman podcast. If you’re ready to step into an exquisite life, schedule a call to discuss how we can help.