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Ready for an Exquisite Life with Spaciousness and Ease?

By Amira Alvarez We’re doing something different here at TUW and I wanted to give you a bit of a preview.For a long time I’ve been oscillating between encouraging you to lean into your masculine or feminine essence.By now, if you’ve been with me for awhile, you know that one is not better…
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We’re doing something different here at TUW and I wanted to give you a bit of a preview.

For a long time I’ve been oscillating between encouraging you to lean into your masculine or feminine essence.

By now, if you’ve been with me for awhile, you know that one is not better than the other and that you need both “to give birth” or make manifest on this physical plane to the ideas, dreams, and goals you hold on the non-physical plane. This is the Law of Gender.

The masculine, represented in summary form, is your singular focused drive, persistence, and discipline on your goal. 

It’s most required when you’re just starting a business or a career and need to build trust in yourself to get the momentum going. This is the gestation period.

This is when you have more time than money, so your focus is on bootstrapping your way to success.

This is when most things require you to hunker down and do things that are beyond your comfort zone. 

This is the “just do it” time period.

None of this needs to feel bad and by all means you’ll want to integrate your feminine essence into how you’re working as well.

Perhaps the 80/20 rule would apply here. Show up 80% in your masculine, 20% in your feminine*.  

Once you’ve got lift off though, it’s generally wise to start moving more into your feminine.

The feminine, in summary form, is your intuitive knowing that moves you forward seemingly indirectly yet reaches outcomes with more ease, more quickly.

It is most required when you’ve already achieved a certain level of success.

When you’ve already mastered the key skill sets required for continued success.

When you already trust yourself to show up and do the work. 

Again, we could apply the 80/20 rule here. Show up 80% in your feminine, 20% in your masculine*.

But most über successful women stay in their masculine 98% of the time and stay there long after it’s actually necessary.

This causes a lack of true satisfaction and a diminishing ROI on their output. 

They’d be better served living from their feminine a whole lot more.   

Better served not only in their entrepreneur/CEO role, but also in their personal lives.

And this is where the Exquisite Life comes in.

We’re going to be talking about this concept and this way of creating a lot more.

This Exquisite Life Plan methodology is best used by those women… 

Who are craving more ease and spaciousness but not at the sacrifice of their ambition…  

Who have already achieved a certain level of success and they’re asking themselves… “Is this all that there is?” and “What’s next?”…  

Who already have amazing lives but are ready to look at that one area that continues to hold them back from a truly exquisite life.

I can’t wait to share more with you. This is the evolution of what’s come before and a birthing of a new body of work. 

*None of this is written in stone. These are just guidelines to get you thinking. Different days, different projects, different conversations, different environments, etc require different aspects of yourself.

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Be sure to check out the Unstoppable Woman podcast. If you’re ready to step into an exquisite life, schedule a call to discuss how we can help.

Goals vs Desires: A key difference when it comes to manifestation

By Amira Alvarez I was talking to a long-time private client this morning about what is next for her. It was a question I posed to her last week for her to contemplate.  Things are good, even great for her yet she’s ready for more. I can feel it. She can feel it.…
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I was talking to a long-time private client this morning about what is next for her.

It was a question I posed to her last week for her to contemplate. 

Things are good, even great for her yet she’s ready for more. I can feel it. She can feel it. But she doesn’t YET know what it is.

She came back to me today with an awareness that she hasn’t really “done goals” well in her life. She just focuses on doing good work and things unfold for her.

We unpacked this and I shared how this was both in alignment with how the Universe works to deliver the manifestations you desire and how it’s also incomplete.

Let me explain…

The Law of Compensation says that in order for you to receive greater compensation you must become bigger than your present place… bigger than who you’re being right now.

This requires growth. 

Growth requires that you become more.

When you have a standard of excellence for yourself in your work and you keep taking on more and doing it with excellence, you will naturally become more. 

You will grow yourself to be a bigger container for the good that you desire.

(This is true whether we’re talking about income, ease, love, spaciousness, exuberant joy, sexual energy, or whatever you desire.)

This is how you become open to receiving more.

And yet there’s often an unconscious missing piece…

DESIRE.

True desire, not lack disguised as desire, is a cause set in motion.

When you claim a true desire it calls you forward into the growth that the Law of Compensation asks of you.

It’s connected to YOUR truth – not a should.

It’s connected to YOUR abundance – not scarcity.

It’s connected to YOUR purpose – not an obligation.

Now let’s compare this to goals. 

I’m a big fan of them but only when you can hold them with an open heart and only when they start from a place of desire… not should, not scarcity, not obligation. 

Most people when they set a goal that doesn’t meet the “desire criteria” immediately feel a certain amount of constriction. 

This is actually a GOOD thing. It’s telling you that you’re off course, either slightly or to a large extent.

This is a forced goal, rather than a true desire.

In order to shift, it just takes tapping back into what you truly, really want.

What is that for you?

This is what we’ll be discussing in our Spirit of Wealth Retreat – what is rising up in you ready for a rebirth. #PhoenixRising

If you have interest in joining us for this in early October, please send me an email.

Decoding the Lived Experience of A Rich Life

By Amira Alvarez Most of us dream, then deny and never actually claim our rich life, that which we truly desire.  It seems unattainable or for someone else, not us. An editorial on the page of a magazine, a story we’ve read, a fantasy that calls us but is distant.  We fall into…
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Most of us dream, then deny and never actually claim our rich life, that which we truly desire. 

It seems unattainable or for someone else, not us. An editorial on the page of a magazine, a story we’ve read, a fantasy that calls us but is distant. 

We fall into it for a moment, dreaming, then denying… We say to ourselves, at the level of murmur, almost imperceptibly… We are not that woman. 

Or are we?

If the desire is felt, the supply is ready to appear. 

This is the Truth. The Law. Your desires are ready to appear. You are that woman.

Yet most women limit their power and deny what they are worthy of receiving.

  • How do we unfold life in a different way than our conditioned past would hold us to? 
  • How do we open the door of possibility long enough to make manifest what we truly want rather than what we’ve been limiting ourselves to? 
  • How do we receive all the beauty and truth that is ours as women?

It’s about getting out of the way and surrendering to all that life is offering to you. But that’s harder than it sounds. 

At every turn, there’s some kind of challenge that causes us to constrict and go back to the old way of pushing, striving, and forcing.

That’s the way that’s gotten us here. It’s the known. It’s trustable to some extent, but it doesn’t feel so good. You’ve got to admit that.

If you really want to tap into your power as a woman to live a truly wealthy life, you must step into the unknown and try a different way.  

And this is where a level of honesty with yourself comes in: What is your more? 

You’ve probably already achieved a level of success and status that you’re proud of. 

You’re probably already making pretty good money, and that’s not the thing that’s at your core, driving you.

You’ve probably already got so much.

But there’s more, right?

There’s something missing, something more that you’re wanting.

When you think about this, do me a favor, and don’t go into that old pattern of defending your achievements or cutting yourself down by saying, what I’ve done or who I’m being is not enough. 

That used to be enough to motivate you.

But that’s scarcity and fear talking and you know you’re ready for a different way. 

A way that’s gentler, kinder, and works with more grace.

A way that delivers without blowing out your nervous system, or leaving you lackluster and unmotivated.

A way that delights and includes all of you, even those little girl parts, the spirit that can’t be suppressed, that so wants to be fully realized in this world.   

Yes?

Then it’s time to have a LIVED EXPERIENCE of a truly rich life.

I’m so excited for the unfolding. More soon.

Need help scaling? Here’s how

By Amira Alvarez You can’t do business without doing the math.  But you don’t have to do it alone.  When you know how to approach the math, it’ll be easy to see the gap between where you are now and where you want to be.  This can be scary at first, something you…
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You can’t do business without doing the math. 

But you don’t have to do it alone. 

When you know how to approach the math, it’ll be easy to see the gap between where you are now and where you want to be. 

This can be scary at first, something you don’t really want to look at.

But we want to turn that around and start to LOVE ❤️ looking at the numbers…

And guess what happens when you do that… 

You’ll be able to build the RIGHT plan for YOU. 

And guess what happens when you have the right plan…

You’ll know exactly what it’ll take to scale and close the gap on time between where you are now and where you want to be.

In other words, you’ll see what it will take to actually Quantum Leap your income!

Sounds easy, but l want to talk about what’s at stake here. 

Without the right plan, you’ll be chasing your own tail, unable to get clarity on not only how much you’d like to earn but how exactly to get there. 

For instance, there was a time when I wanted to make loads of money but I struggled with that desire. Did I deserve it? Was it wrong to want it? Did it mean that others were going to get the short end of the stick?  All of that stopped me from executing at the highest level.

I also know what it feels like to wonder why what I’m doing isn’t contributing to my dreams and my purpose. I was working my tail off but not getting ahead. I kept thinking… “Why is it so freaking hard? Why do I keep getting in my own way? When is it going to get better?” This storyline creates so much noise you get stuck in the morass everyday, rather than seamlessly doing what you need to do.

Then there’s the next layer down…even if you have the most powerful spreadsheet on revenue forecasts, but you don’t have the beliefs or the self-image to go with your plans, you won’t execute on them, and you’ll lose your trust in yourself.

And when you lose trust in yourself, you’ll lose a little bit of your self worth.

What happens when you lose your self-worth?

You won’t feel worthy of receiving more money, more easily.

And THAT is a big roadblock to wealth.

So what do you say? Shall we bust that wide open and do things differently?

Simply download The Scale Plan  and get access to a step-by-step guide on how to develop a scalable business plan that will actually work for you. 

It includes a worksheet that asks the right questions, audio training to guide you through everything, and a bonus “Make Love to the Numbers” spreadsheet to help you build the right business plan. 

All totally FREE.

It’s exactly what you need to take things to the next level.

The question is… are you going to act? 
See you on the other side!

My addiction to time scarcity–and what I did about it

By Amira Alvarez I’ve been totally guilty of… Trying to fit one more thing in before my next meeting. Scarfing down my lunch at my desk before my next zoom call…or actually on it? Rushing to get somewhere because I cut it so close leaving the house. I’ve done ALL of these things…
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I’ve been totally guilty of…

Trying to fit one more thing in before my next meeting.

Scarfing down my lunch at my desk before my next zoom call…or actually on it?

Rushing to get somewhere because I cut it so close leaving the house.

I’ve done ALL of these things and the truth is, I still do sometimes! Ugh! All in the name of efficiency, growth, and personal responsibility to my business.

But how does it feel?

Anything but RICH!

Rushing around, cramming too much into one day or one week, being over busy… it just isn’t a rich and abundant life.

It’s time scarcity.

And time scarcity IS scarcity. Flat out.

That was one of the biggest AH-HAs I had over the years– that money scarcity is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to being in lack.

Now truth be told…when I started this journey, I just wanted to make a f—- ton of money. I didn’t want to feel constrained by not having enough.

Of course I wanted to do good work and truly serve, but I also wanted the big payday. I make this point over and over because I think people have a lot of guilt about wanting to make big money. Like they can’t be a good person AND make money.

But that’s not true and money was, in the beginning, a huge driver for me.

There was a ton of personal growth work and tactical action that I needed to take to figure out money abundance.

But once I did, I realized that I was still in scarcity…

Scarcity about time has been a BIG ONE for me but you might find you’re in scarcity about love, presence, connection, attention, or even your health.

In talking to my 84 year old mother on my trip out to see her in California last week, she said: “You’re so positive and happy.”


Hi Mom 👋

She’s known me for a long time, so I really appreciated that reflection. But it didn’t happen overnight or without facing some serious demons.

And “by facing demons” I mean really reflecting on the results I was getting, being honest that I was ‘at cause’ creating these outcomes. There was no one and no thing outside of me that was determining this and was to blame. It was me and how I was choosing to live.

Next came claiming that I was not available for a life lived like this.

This required a level of awareness about what was happening, getting clear, and making decision after decision to live my life differently.

I explain it and give a couple of examples of how it works in this video clip: A 3-Step Process For Planning Your Time Away From The Office

Once you watch it, do a little reflection… where are you in scarcity in your life? That’s the awareness piece. Then it’s time to hold yourself to a higher standard and start doing life and business differently.

Let me know how it goes for you!

How to know when to stretch financially

By Amira Alvarez You want to hire that expert, sign up for that training, or go to that event.  You want to invest in new software or attract that next-level team member with a bigger comp package.  Or maybe you want to invest in infrastructure like the client in the coaching dialogue we’re…
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You want to hire that expert, sign up for that training, or go to that event. 

You want to invest in new software or attract that next-level team member with a bigger comp package. 

Or maybe you want to invest in infrastructure like the client in the coaching dialogue we’re highlighting today.

Whatever it is, you know that you need to invest in order to level up. 

Yet, the truth is… sometimes your CASH POOR, the funds are allocated for something else, or you’re just uncertain about future cash flow. 

You sit there pondering… Is making this investment an act of staking a claim for abundance and growth? Or is this just going to stress me out beyond my comfort level?

Listen into this coaching dialogue where we cover the practicalities and the nuances of making these kinds of decisions even when you’re running a multiple million dollar business… plus, I share my story of how this has changed for me over the years.